Self-confidence is the key to success in meeting and communicating with girls. Probably you have heard from some females that now there are no real men? These girls lack a desperately look for self-confident men who could make them do what he wants in the first place, and not what she wants.
Secret dreams of many ladies are that he:
- make decisions;
- know how to control her;
- make she act on his instructions, etc.
You can be a good guy, sensual, kind, willing to help, temperamental, gentle, etc. All these qualities are good and the girl will appreciate them as positive ones. But she somehow needs a male leader. She will always look for him. If she does not find such type in you, there are no chances for mutual love.
Let’s talk about confidence. A confident person is sure that he can achieve what he wants. How many times have you seen on the street a couple, where the girl is very beautiful, and the guy, well, to put it mildly, not very handsome. You can ask yourself: “What can bind them?” You probably think that this guy has a lot of money. Yes, you can be right, but do not you think that there are a lot of such coincidences? Not everyone has yachts, cars, cottages. And believe me, even the one who is incredibly well-off doesn’t have such a cool girl as those guys who have the confidence that they can meet a girl and that they deserve her.
Yes, you can be indignant and say to yourself: “Damn, so ugly, but with such a beautiful chick.” Of course, but he not you approached this “model” showed perseverance with his self-assurance and conquered her. And it does not matter if they just drink coffee or they are in a relationship. Now it is he, and not you with this chick young lady.
Strong sex is really afraid of being turned down by a female. However sometimes in such a way a bride-to-be tests your self-confidence, perseverance, willpower – all the features that she wants to see. Do you understand what we mean? If you persistent, if you make a lot of efforts, a woman will make sure that you like her, that you have a real desire. And do not forget when approaching the girl about your inner feeling of being a leader, lion, bigwig, boss. Even if you are not a kind, just meditate on this subject.
How to act if you feel a tension during the first meeting:
1) Do not give up and do not fall off immediately, show firmness;
2) In case of failure, relax and remember that it happens;
3) When you like this beauty, try again.
Use these tips and overcome challenges. Be able to see the good in everything and look at life philosophically. Don’t be shy and feel free in any situation.