Imagine the situation, that you suddenly met a lovely person, who invited you for a date. This person welcomes you with a brilliant smile and you want this evening never end. For different reasons, you begin to behave better than you ordinary do. Is it sound familiar? We invest many efforts to win the attention and trust of people. What happen afterward?
They cannot maintain such a level of courtship and attention anymore, and as a result, they relax. Finally, your partner feel disappointment, because you do not meet his expectations anymore. The couple either experiences the crisis or breaks up. How to avoid this scenario from the beginning?
Be simple and sincere. Probably everyone has ever seen an insincere smile, when person’s lips are smiling while his eyes are not. People are quite simply determine those nonverbal signs suggesting that the smile is false. It is always more pleasant to be honest and natural, both for yourself and for those in love with you.
Accepting yourself, you should accept your partner. Does not matter if your girlfriend sometimes capricious and emotional, because she is still the most beautiful, tender and charming for you. Accept boredom and strictness of your boyfriend, because he is still the most courageous, strong and loving person.
Do not try to change and customize another person. Try to focus on joint growth. Then you will always discover some new fringes of your personality, and consequently – you will be interested in each other. Find some new hobbies and spend this time developing yourself.
Accept basic needs of each other. For example, one of the basic needs of women is security. So the man’s task is to create such a feeling for her. One of the main things for men is the feeling that he is important and irreplaceable, and than his life makes sense. So, a woman should always tell and show the man that she needs him, his love, care, support, etc.
Between the main signs of a sincere feelings is that your partner sees you in his future. It does not mean that on the second day after acquaintance he should introduce you to his parents. It will be enough if he will mention you telling about his plans for the coming weekend.
Being sincere while building relationships is a whole art. Sometimes it helps to strengthen relations, sometimes – destroy it. This very important skill is never taught at schools or universities. Nevertheless, sincerity is the basis of long-term relations. You will never regret investing in honesty from the very beginning of relationships. Finally, the main thing in life is not how popular you are … And not what girl or boy you are dating, and not who you are familiar with. Life is to be sincere with yourself and with what you believe.